Well, we discussed the children and money albeit with a bit of voice raising and the envitable talk about our relationship. my wife said she has no respect or love for me anymore because of the way I have treated her over the years. She does not know how she put up with me for all these years, her parents saw a different side to me, future holidays with the children, where I will take them etc etc etc. I said that we need to try and build a friendly relationship for the children, she agreed but she said any trust and respect will take a long time to restore if ever. She does not want to talk to me unless it is about the children and that is all.

I feel pretty down with this damning verdict and reteric, what do I need to do, and can anyone see any way of reconcilling ever?

My wife is coming back in 5 mins with the children, is there anything I can say to her?

Last edited by markhaving probs; 04/13/09 05:27 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years