Mr. DQ and I continue to make emotional progress. The fighting that had plagued our relationship has been tempered into basically nothing. We still get off base sometimes, but I have finally learned how not to go into a danger zone. And he is following suit so well that I don't think he has even noticed. I think that he thinks we have magically just gotten all better. But that's ok, I'll take the credit on my own. He has really pulled his half of the game up too, without even realizing it.
So now I am back to being madly in love and we're trying (for the third time now) to figure out a wedding date and place. He finally admitted to me that he didn't want to go to the carribean so it will more likely be Hawaii. We will just elope with no guests, which was always our plan.
As for sex....that all fixed itself, too. Once we got out of dangerous emotional territory, its all been great again. We are back to 2 - 3 times per week, with each time being better than the rest. As usual, I got my world rocked this weekend and I'm literally walking on air today. People who work with me just think I am naturally in a good mood all the time. LOL!
And now that we've made some progress on the house (at least to the extent that we have two large areas completed) we can sit around and enjoy it a little now and then. Previously, we were constantly working and tired and kinda going crazy in the construction dust. Now we have our jazzy little lounge (living room) and our bed & breakfast style new bedroom (way more room than the bedroom we had been in previously) and it just feels fun and great to hang out together. My kids are so insanely jealous, because they grew up in this house and it never looked like this before. They jokingly tell the grandbaby "Don't be fooled honey, this house may be where I grew up but its totally different now! As in, its NICE now!" LOL! And it just keeps getting nicer.
The plan now is to stay for a year or two, get married this year, and then when we are ready to sell, we might actually look at relocating....a big step for both of us.
OK and random topic for the day: Hey Baggy, if you are reading, you never told me if you and Mrs. Baggy got to see Secretary together? And anyone else who is reading, did you see Secretary and what did you think of it???
