Yes, the glass is from OM. I've told her too many times to count just how disrespectful I find it that she has the glass.
It's a drinking glass OM got on a FAMILY vacation with his W and kids a couple years ago in the middle of the A.
I think your comment about a wise man picking his battles is a good one....for now....
And it does HURT. She knows how I feel about it and if it's truly "just a glass" like she says, she should have no problem getting rid of the thing knowing how I feel about it.
I've even said to her "put yourself in my shoes, if I'd have had an A and kept a gift that my OW gave me, would you be ok with it"? And she dropped her head and stared at the ground.
So, yes she knows, but apparently, my feelings aren't as important to her as a frickin glass from OM.
Is it a deal breaker? Yes, but not right this minute.....
Thanks for the comment.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.