talked to omw last night for 2.5 hrs. she seemed like a great person and I feel bad she is going through this.
i referred her to the DM book. She's started reading it. We compared timelines and events and everything seems to map out over a long period of time.
however, seems for sure OM is lying to both of them. I feel she has a real chance to come back to her. They spent the past spring break together with their kids. Must be tough on my xw knowing they were together all week. I'm sure he had some excuse.
another item of note, i always thought in affairs that the OM would be someone totally opposite of myself. in this case, he seems to have all the faults that my W brought up about me, but magnified. I'm sure xw hasnt discovered this yet. I found that very interesting.
