Need advise and support - desperately

[Jerri]

I'm not sure why he was driving past - it's not like he really has any reason to be up here - that I know of.

My eldest son works for my H (bad situation for my son) so does talk to him every day but son keeps it strictly business - however H does ask him how I'm doing. Son is good and just tells him I'm doing great.

OTOH my son told me that he saw him the other day and H looks absolutely awful. Don't know whether to be happy about that or not. I'm sure that the bar-hopping he's doing all weekend with his alcoholic sister and BIL isn't helping his health or his state of mind.