I love that phrase 'what a eunuch!'. I'm going to start incorporating that into every day conversation and see if other people start using it too. Brilliant!
As usual with your H it seems that he wants something that has gone, and you want something more than what you had (which is the only real way of rebuilding the R as far as I understand DBing). If only there was a way to show him how to step up, or how great things could be, but he isn't doing any of the things that the C suggested he try is he (or are you guys both still doing that?).
Either way it seems that things are coming to a head. Thinking of you (and Christos Anesti for next week!)