Originally Posted By: goingtofixME


I'm just so confused. I know that I love this man. I have been reading and reading so many things trying to figure out what I should be doing. I did some attempts at GAL today. I went out with the kids to the park and took pictures. Sadly I have to be honest and say that part of my inspiration was to be able to put the pictures up in hopes that he will see them. I know that it is said that GAL is not supposed to be about doing things to get a partner back, but in the grand scheme of things isn't that what we all subconsciously are wanting?


Yes. However, when we are in this unfortunate (but very real) position, we don't have the luxury of being able to do what we "want" anymore. Not for the time being, anyway.

There will again come a time when you get your emotional needs met. Now just isn't that time.

Puppy