Hi Rob (((()))) I am so sorry that your little one is having to go through this. The fact that she talks to you in such away speaks volumes for the kind of Daddy you are. She will be fine with such a great friend and confidant as you. The fact you are her daddy makes it a double blessing. I hope you are feeling proud of all your achievements.
On the point of not being able to give her the easter you would like too, I understand your feelings but it is purely materialism and what you actually give your daughter in terms of love and support is priceless. I am glad you realized that it didn't actually matter to your daughter. You had those feelings now let them go. You know there is nothing you can do about the x, but plenty you can and do do for your daughter. My x professes to love his kids (adults now) he never sees them -I am talking years. He asked for me to set up a meeting when my d had her son I did,he visited once when g/son was 8 months, he is 2 soon and they never heard from him again. Recently my d discovered he has been putting money into g/sons account on a fairly regular basis(not large amounts, he is not wealthy) which do you think matters more to her and g/son? Don't beat yourself up. Money buys nothing in situations like this, or did you want the status of being a Disney Dad--hmm I thought not. Take care.
