Fit - He doesn't have to make you accept the divorce - if he wants to divorce he just have to file it - that's it. The whole drama he came up with has no reason to be.. unless.... it is true. If he has a close friend you know - talk to him/her - he may be more "stable" than your H and give you some insight. I think everyone should fight for their marriage, this is why I am here, but sometimes I think it is better to back off from a situation that can be very damaging. You are a young and obviously good person, you deserve MUCH more than this. This is not a situation were after few years of marriage things start to be complicated and you need a rescue plan to save the family. Your marriage didn't really start yet, and you are already in a lot of trouble. I think your H is a very troubled person and you should free yourself from him. Too many people speak about what God wants... the truth is only God knows.... but of one thing I am totally positive - He doesn't want you to be miserable. Said that - this is what I think reading your posts - the actual situation may be very different - I can't really know - but to me it doesn't seem that with this man you have the foundations to start a family. (((hugs))) rop
