It may be too late to use at this moment in the R, but you can tuck it under you cap for the future. Every woman needs communication with her H. I talked my heart out for years and years and my H acted as if he did not have a tongue. Do you know what my OM said to me once? He said, "I can't believe any man would let you slip through his fingers". That meant a lot to me b/c that is exactly how I felt my H had treated me......as if he did not care enough to try to communicate with me and give something of himself to the R.
So, when things get into pieceing for you all, remember how serious this is to women and that there will always be some silver tongued man out there that knows just what to say to her to meet her emotional needs. She will think she has finally found a man that "understands" her. But you know what? It was the OM that I really wanted to understand me......it was my H that I wanted all along. But when he told me that he had done nothing wrong.....you cannot believe how badly that hurt.
As I said, this is just FYI for the future to have so you won't make the same mistake.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
