My wife is coming over today to discuss divorce papers, my split from the house and visitation. I am not entirely happy with the money on offer, but I do not want to get into a fight with her. I know I have got to get the best deal for me and the children and I cannot worry about what my wife thinks, but I want us to be able to negociate without conflict. she has promised not to touch my pension, she also is being fair with the childrens maintenance. What is the best way to play this?
One question as I am in England when do you have to pay childs maintenance? Is it when you are seperated, even though we do not have a seperation order in place, or is it paid when you are divorced?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
