I Never Imagined Being Here

[pearlharbr]

Yes, that was a big backslide. But best to learn from it and move on.

Who called whom? Who brought up the relationship issues? No more R talks unless she brings it up. And then you just listen and validate. Listen to me: she will NOT understand your pov, she will NOT agree with you, she will NOT tell you something you want to hear.

Bringing up that you want her to see an IC is trying to control her. You cannot control her actions/thoughts/feelings. You can only control yourself.

Have you read sandi2's list of things to do? Find it, read it, live it.