I haven't had it yet. I am going to talk to a lawyer this week to see what I can expect to pay in spousal support (I make about 4 times what she does and live in a no-fault state) and that will be what I give her. No more, no less. Once I find out about all the legalities then I can figure out how to handle the whole situation better. If it has to come down to a choice between OM and me and she chooses OM then I will know how to proceed. Make sense?
