Yeah,my H is now looking at my face now and making eye contact as well. It's a little thing but such a difference. It's like they kind of have some respect for us now.
I think the reason is that they don't feel pressured as much by us anymore. The lack of eye contact in my case suggests that he feels really guilty and can't wait to be somewhere else and can't look us in the eye and if they do they feel that we are pursuing them. They don't want to see the pain and so is avoiding looking into them. But now that the pressure is off, they are acting a little bit more normal. Which is a good sign. I know your H will regret his decisions. I am also glad that you are finding some peace with your sitch. You are also very very strong.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
