The self-destruction of one we love (yes, we still love and always will love the ones who have hurt us the most) is difficult to see. I'm both saddened and angry today b/c of what my XW has done to our M, our D, and herself.
Glad you are back w/a thread. I've missed you, my friend.
I also like the party idea and the hamster in my brain is spinning on the wheel around an idea of having a "wake" to mark the positives of my marriage and allow it to be officially put to rest. I like it and I'll keep thinking of it and keep you posted if I put something together.
