S If XH tells you how he is doing things differently now..I would validate briefly and change the subject to something lighter..I definitely think that any talk about the OW will make you react, so guard yourself and if he calls you for a reason, keep the discussion brief, tot the point, upbeat and light and get off the phone do not call him I would not share how You really FEEl at this point..it will only drive him further away and remember why he left b/c we didnt Get them.. peace
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