I agree with TRUSTING! In the great scheme of things, when all is said and done, and the last breath is sighed, I hope you have found a way to totally get everything you can from him, then move on and away and find someone real. But, your greatest (and possibly, only) gift you ever received from your H are your children ... just be their mother and do not concern yourself any longer with their father and his relationship with them.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim