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Happy Easter
I beleive they feel the guilt on their own
leaving their W
having an A
abandoning the kids
spending
the whole premise about DB-to not guilt them and they will feel it on their own
I would see it in my H facial expressions when he looked at his son 5 years old at that time..a son who was about to get partially abandoned and be raised without a father (except on his 2 hour visits every few days)
our spouses know what they have done is wrong--so guilt has to be a part of it
you seem like you are doing well
its best to not talk about OW( ignore it if he discusses her)change subject
the hurt will subside in timwe
do not discuss D either--change the subject if he brings it up
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow