I always told myself in the beginning that I would leave her ass so quick she would not know what hit her, but for my two boys I would go forever trying to keep the mariage together. I realized quickly or in the long term if she did not come back, it was the best way for me to survive through a divorce.

I have big shoulders, pile it on, I can take it!

Be in it for the long haul because it will be longer than you want it to be, but it will be shorter than you thought after it is over.

Burt