Not sure if he is, but I find myself being annoyed by the same behavior. My W will walk around in next to nothing, and then get annoyed / insulted if I notice and say anything - "those sort of comments make me uncomfortable and I feel pressure -- like you want something when we can only just be friends right now..."
She might or might not be doing it intensionally, but I agree with SP that is a difficult position for an LBH to be in.
It is next to imposibble to just not notice, and when you notice it is both very difficult not to react and a painful reminder.
Last edited by Thinker; 04/13/0901:06 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.