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Is it at all possible, that you could be reading too much into her behavior?


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Not sure if he is, but I find myself being annoyed by the same behavior. My W will walk around in next to nothing, and then get annoyed / insulted if I notice and say anything - "those sort of comments make me uncomfortable and I feel pressure -- like you want something when we can only just be friends right now..."


She might or might not be doing it intensionally, but I agree with SP that is a difficult position for an LBH to be in.

It is next to imposibble to just not notice, and when you notice it is both very difficult not to react and a painful reminder.

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