OK, next question. Before I came to my senses and found DB, my wife and I discussed the situation ad nuasium and she insisted and still does that her OM is just a friend. I know this is not true and have found much evidence (I have not told her that I know or how). beshe calls from work with a bs story about a friend in town, I told her I would be with the kids so go and have a good time. Now I know what she did, but she would never say. My issue is this. I am trying to give space in the hopes that this thing will run its course and I may get a shot down the road, by working the program. Do I come off looking like the fool, or do I let her know that I am aware that there is only one reason she would bail on the kids the night before Easter, we do the carrots etc... I want to score some points for knowing and still saying, "go and have a good time"... and while it is tough to think about it, I genuinely want her to be happy. I feel like if the covert stuff is over and the light of day hits this, one thrill is gone and it is a matter of time before all thrill fades. Any thoughts from those who know?
