Hi PositiveMom,

You are so inspiring - and strong. If anybody has a shot at saving her M you sure do and I wish you all the luck in the world.
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I told him it's really his choice, not my choice. I said all this in a matter-of fact manner in a gentle tone. My DB coach said I can say anything as long as it is in a loving, gentle manner. I am so glad I was able to pull it off.

This is something I'm working on now as my H is starting to hit bottom. It's imperative that I stay the calm, controlled one as he begins his panic tactics.

I will stay tuned to your sitch. Hope you had a lovely Easter.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10