Go back to what you were doing before, and remember, do not give up, for your daughters sake, you are so close, but if you press it, you lose, you have to give her the decision to come back, you cannot "make" if for her.
I do not like you saying, I wish she would make a decision either way, that sounds like giving up on your daughter. Your daughter needs you and her for the best chance at a good life. So do not give up on her, your wife is probably getting ready to make that decision because she knows that your promotion may be coming, and then she has to do something one way or the other, now is not the time to panic, or get all mushy on me with all of your "feelings".
