alright guys I have a question. If the opportunity arrives again for me to speak with xh, and it will probably be on the phone, how should I act? Since we are divorced already can I voice my opinion when he says something mean or negative? When he starts with the "how I am doing things differently this time", should I tell him exactly how I feel or should I try and validate and be nice. In other words try to be happy for him. We are already divorced so tell me why I can not just tell him what I think about him?
On a good note, son told me his dad had been going to church every Sunday. I am glad to hear that.
