Reading through your situation, my interpretation is that this is a low dip on the emotional roller coaster he has been putting you through. What I can also attest to from personal experience - you can step off that roller coaster and focus on yourself. I know with my situation - I'd be insane if I tried to ride along with W's emotional imbalances.
Puppy... hope your situation isn't deteriorating. I'm sure it is a journey dealing with someone who has a personality disorder, as I'm learning myself.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
