naej, I see it a little differently then most I guess, I think no matter what the age your children are your children. No matter how old he is I will help him. My father has been helping me and I am glad I can sometimes depend on him. Yes my son is still in school, with that said, when he goes back to work part time, his check helps cover the bills, so if xh would help him buy some summer clothes it would be nice. A teenager is expensive to raise. I guess really he is our baby no matter what age.