beno, I am in the middle of the mess myself, so take my advice for what it is worth.
Follow your heart and be true to yourself and her. Don't be fearful. Be open, honest, sincere and yourself. I can't see how you can go wrong by being that way. That is the way that I am trying to be in my situation, although it seems like things are changing between our situations.
Good luck and keep posting!
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