he is sooo convinced you are the source of his pain. the D didnt make it go away so maybe marrying her will. Thats where the erasing you comes from,
Didnt you have a lawyer for your D?
My xh told me this himself. He told me he did not intend to get married so soon but he says things change. I can understand that some run off and get married soon after divorce and the reasons why. What I dont understand is my xh told me back about a month and a half ago (When I was calling him every now and then), that the ow's time was just about up. I asked why he says that and he said it's just time for her to go. They also have broken up twice since starting to date in Dec. or Jan. I cant remember. WHY all of a sudden is he wanting to get married. There was a rumor she was pregnant but he says she isnt. Yeah he said before he wanted to erase me from his life, that the only think that existed from his past was his son. He does say things out of anger though, but I think he really would like to forget the past. There was so much stress in the last year, I wanted to run away too, but I didnt. I never would. I love my family too much.
No, sadly, I didnt get a lawyer. He got one for free and I just signed the papers. He pretty much gave me everything. The mistake I made was believing he would take care of me no matter what. He said he would NEVER turn his back on us, no matter if another woman came into the picture. I tried telling him it would happen and he said NO WAY! I was stupid and believed him. See, I believed him because I couldnt imagine this man I was married to and loved would ever do anything to hurt me. I knew this man I thought, so I believed him. HOOK LINE AND SINKER.
