after meeting with my wife yesterday she said she is so releived ive come out and said what i said, she feels the world has been lifted off her shoulders and mine to, she said she almost give up hoping i would see what the cause was, she says this totally changes things now ive acknowledged it. she thinks now that i should get some personal counseling at first then maybe we could look at going together, she said her feelings will take time to come back and there is no saying they will, she is willing to take things real slow, she said this is the first step forward but there will be lots more to come, she hugged me so tightly and said thank you, what do i do now?
