a lot of these MLCers are Serious with their new loves..at the beginning
some live withtheir ow..SOME MARRY THEM OR TALK OF IT
it makes sense that the mlcer wants to believe that the new R will work to FIX him and that all his problems really were were the old M to us
this is a lie
the new R will not work any better unless the MLCer changes and works thru the issues
a new R wont Cure anything
so your H is delusional like the reat of them
what Ivew seen on these boards is that although th mlcer may not return, the new R does not work in the long run

there is nothing we can do excwpt let them go
they will try
it may take years before they see the truth and the mess they have created
at this point all we can do is save ourselves
happy easter
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow