I will agree that I will NEVER be OK with my W and her current OM. A lot of that has to do with the fact that HE knows that she's still married; yet he's made no effort to stay out of our M once he found out. He wasn't the OM in her life when she split last Sept. He's never been M'd; so he has no idea, but he'll get an idea in about 3-5 years I suspect.
For the very fact that he's still around after finding out makes it hard for me to EVER like him. the next man in her life, maybe. By then we'll be D'd and I know I'm going to have no problem moving on.
