My ex did the same thing right away after the divorce.

He bought her the ring.

He even took my kids wedding dress shopping with him.

Well, he never followed through.

No more talk of weddings.

I have no idea what happened.

I really don't care.

All I know is that they fight all the time

He is broke.

No more trips.

He barely can afford food in his house.

Reality has hit

It will work the same for you

Leave him alone and go dark

The more you talk to him or react to him the more it feeds his illness.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11