Sandi2, I can't really write at the moment, but wanted to just say how much reading your post has meant to me on this night. I will explain more tomorrow when I have time to write. You hit on so many important points and I want to address all your questions too. I'll check out the other post you mentioned as well tomorrow. The books came in the mail today, but since I spent the day with H, I haven't even opened the box. I'll start on them Monday when he is out of the house. It feels wonderful to have this network and I'm confident that whether he goes or stays in the end, I'll be a much better person from these principles and the suppport you're offering. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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