Do you have a hard time thinking of your husband dating at this point? Or is it, like, old news?
Puppy
Well I don't think any married person is totally uncaring about their WAS dating! And of course I think how horrible that is for the kids b/c at least at one point he was having OW over with the kids all the time. Great role model!!!
D9 used to constantly mention OW, and doesn't anymore the past month or so, so don't know if they aren't as involved anymore or maybe he just realized how gross he was being having her around our kids while still married?
I do have to say although I think I will never be happy about my H dating, well not as long as we're married, I think it'll be less painful for him to date someone other than OW. She was a friend of mine and has been married 3 times, and has ? parenting like giving her young dd alcohol and other stuff I've heard about her so I do not want her anywhere near my sweet, formerly innocent kids!
As time goes on, I'm more convinced that he's making a huge mistake. I don't need him like I once thought, and I think at some point he's going to regret at least some of the stuff he's done the past 2 years. Or you'd think so anyway!!!
He's dating some messed up married woman with messed up kids. So I almost would feel sorry for him, but not there yet.
I think something is going on with H. He's become friendlier, remember how mean he used to be? I would actually say he's been friendly and nice lately. Although, part of me is horrible b/c I think maybe it's so he can get a better D settlement. He also looks me in the face now instead of kind of looking anywhere else.
But I really feel mentally I have moved on. I'm looking forward to getting the D over, and living a great life. I don't plan to be friends with him, but will continue to be friendly.
Pup, have you thought about posting a thread somewhere here about your own sitch? Or have you? Just wondering. Karen
