Great advice like always. I love your perspective and realness! I have come to accept I also will never understand his choice to get married or the choice to end our M so quickly. I have spent a lot of time trying to figure it out and I'm still lost :-). I don't think he completely understands either..... I believe he thought I was the magic answer to his own happiness and when he found out I wasn't, he bailed. I could have told him upfront I wasn't his magic solution!
When is your brother heading over to Afghan? I am sorry for your losses. Our time here is definitely precious and something to make the most of. I'm glad it doesn't end here on earth.
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Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
