I am looking at moving close to Lakeland, Florda since that is where my son will be attending college....

Hi Trusting,

I haven't written on your threads for over a year, but I have tried to follow along as best I can.

If I remember correctly, your wedding date was 12.27.87 - the same exact day my wife and I were married! (I am still in the limbo-land of MLC separation which has been going on for more than two years now.)

Anyhow, I was born in Winter Haven Florida, which is just a few miles east of Lakeland and I still have relatives in that area.
I drove down there the day after Thanksgiving this past November, and it was sad to see how few of the rolling acres of citrus groves still exist. However, the hundreds of lakes are still beautiful and there are many reasons to consider living down there.

You have been an inspiration to me, in showing how to move forward in one's life in a positive manner, while keeping the door to reconciliation slightly ajar.

I agree with your logic, but of course you need to Trust your intuition. If you take a trip to Lakeland and visit the various communities there, G-d will show you signs and you will know what the best decision for you and your children will be.

Best wishes to you as contemplate the large decisions before you.

LG


Me 46
WAW 45
M 21 yrs

WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06
W moves out 3/07
Mediation finalized 08/08

LG's 1st Thread
LG's 2nd Thread