I just read this posting and it has helped me to pick up my head and heart once again. My husband left about 6 weeks ago and started a relationship with another woman before he left. We have been married for 12 years and I dont want to loose my hope and prayers when I get myself down. I came across this posting on accident, but it was exactly what I needed to pick my self up again. I think that its great to have you on here. May God bless all of you and I also include everyone in my prayers at night. May God help all of our marriages and help us to do what we can to restore them.