In regard to going 'dim' i mean as a strategy rather than legal. I do not want to look as though I am doing more of the same because in the past I have not played a big enough part in their lives. I want to be a better father by spending more time with them, but I do not want my wife to assume I am pursuing her via the children. Also, I want to make sure I am not detaching totally from my wife, though she is definately detaching from me at the moment so I need to try and find a balance.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
