Renee,

Honestly....for the last time......

It doesn't matter what he says or what he is doing or what he says he is going to do.

Have you ever thought that he is enjoying your reaction?

Have you ever thought that each time he gets a rise out of you it gives him a sense of control?

I am not sure who gives you this information and although I did post some advice on your last thread, I am going to repost it.

Quote:
"Son, I really don't want to know anything that goes on with your Father and his girlfriend anymore.
I don't want to know what he says about me, good bad or indifferent.
It is too difficult for me right now.
Please don't tell me anything else about what he says about me, even if I try to get information out of you in a weak moment.
If your Father and I have anything to discuss we will do it together without your involvement.
It is more important that you have two parents that love you rather then try to drag you into their mess"
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There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.