New to the world of adultery

[FitChik]

Finally this week I got the understanding & explanation to my sitch - which until now has been a mystery..... AW.

My H and I were married this past Aug 08. We were long distance before & after the wedding due to dual military. After only 3 months of M, H tells me he's done & wants a D. He filed in Dec 08 before deploying to Iraq. I have been standing for our M and trying to figure out the the heck happened...

My H finally tells me this week he slept with AW the entire time we dated, after our engagement, and even the month after our marriage. I found out this W followed him to TX to be with him after he kept telling her not to move and that he didn't like her (per our mutual friend).

My H now states he is not physically attracted to me and doesn't want to be married to me. States he thought he was ILW me but was not. States he was not ready to be married and made a mistake.

I am waiting to be served and decide how to proceed. I am trying to cope with all of this new info - but it's difficult. I feel extremely disgusted and betrayed. If I knew my H was sleeping with AW even while we dated, I would have called it quits then.... let alone married him.

Any advice is appreciate! Thanks for reading.