Wow, the wife called a bit ago. She said my daughter was snooping at her place and found mens body wash. She said, I had bought it for you when I had invited you over before. I said, when did you invite me over? She said she had, but I don't remember. Anyway, she said she had a great time last night and that she missed me and so on. She said she was floored when she saw me in the gym yesterday, that I was a sight for sore eyes. I told her it was really good to see her as well. She said she missed me and missed being home. I said, well, why don't you come home then? She said, I'm leaning that way.(Fantastic!) She said you've been fantastic about this whole thing.

She said the being by herself has been ok but it wasn't what she thought it would be. She said she knows she made a big deal about the friends thing but has only been out twice with friends and only had her girl friend over twice. She said it's lonely at night. I told her I knew how she felt. She said the only good thing has been the ability to come and go as she pleases. I didn't say anything other than, you know, if we can put the past behind us and just concentrate on the future, I'm sure it would be wonderful. She said, I know, I'm just not sure yet. So, I backed off again.

She started talking about some Korean restuarant and I told her I had been and it was good but there was a better one. She said how do you know? I said because I've been--I guess she thought I had just been sitting around moping? I said, yeah, you want to go there next for lunch one day? She said sounds good.


OK, this seems like it is progressing in the right direction. So, how do I keep it rolling that way? I'm looking for any and all inputs. Thank you so much!


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!