Hey native, Sorry to hear your W is on the merry-go-round of emotions. It's quite oblivious she isn't happy with her current life either. My H picked not so good friends too. I knew straight away they were messed up. It took my H almost 2 years to figure this out. Some people just don't see that.

Try to be your W's friend & nothing more, if possible at this point. Again, you cannot fix or help her.

Hope Disneyland is fun!! Ken's going there too.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)