Love Is Whatever You Can Still Betray

[AFWAW]

She said nothing but kept raging - "so much crap in this house!

Are you sure you're wife isn't splitting her time at my house? My wife said almost the same thing. I didn't say anything but I thought it--something like FU, you're the one that bought all this freaking stuff.

I also realized when I went on the porch to hand it to her that I physically shrink in her presence when she's in these moods.

I used to do this as well. Not so much anymore as I read something before about just because she's in one of these moods doesn't mean it's about you. I now act like I could care less--if she wants something from me while she's in one of these moods, she can ask. If she starts taking it out on me, I remove myself from the situation with little or no response. I will do my best to not enable her to argue. I have been an enabler of her arguing for years. I want to enable her to do something else with me