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FWIW, my DB Coach specifically instructed me to back WAY off the next couple days after an event like this, especially if it was as successful as yours was (mine wasn't). WAWs will feel like they're losing control and that those all-important walls are breached if you press too hard the next day. Initiate nothing, make no further invitations. Let her process in peace and mystery.


That sounds pretty good. I won't initiate anything then but I will be available for phone calls if she wants to talk. We'll see, so far looking more promising. She's not saying I want a divorce anymore.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!