Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[sweet-1]

So we met yesterday to hand the kids off...god I hate that term....in the local grocery store parking lot. She completely ignored my request tos et the boundary about the bed. But was still civil. She was complaining about how the kids made such a mess in th back of her explorer and they should have to clean it on Saturday. I looked in and agreed with her (it is a mess). She seemed surprised and said thank you for agreeing with her.

I asked for the keys to the holiday trailer (I've made the all the payments on it for 4 mos now) so I could get it ready for the season. She looks at me and says it'll probably be sold by the time I need it (May long weekend). I replied we agreed not to sell any joint property without consulting the other, she ignored me.

So far anyhting I've shown an interest in keeping, she has tried to bully me into selling. Not gonna happen with the house or the holiday trailer. She has an ATV worth about as much as the trailer, which she took with her. The ATV was paid cash by me and registered/insured in my name. The trailer is registered in her name, I'm making the payments and paying insurance, so when it comes time (if...things seem different lately...not sure if its good or not) to split property, she can keep the trailer loan, and I will sign the quad over to her in exchange for the trailer, which is being paid down quickly.

It amazes me how much she figures things are worth for one (based on friends and last year's prices), and two she feels they'll sell quickly at a higher price...Not sure of the logic here either.