Hey ITH! Nice to see you here.. I know what you mean, everyone argues and moans about their R and people just are that way and its how their R is.. i mean..I have alot of people in crisis, talking abuot splitting, S or D.. so more serious stuff.
Anyway, ex just called.. I let it go to answer machine. He sounded distant, whatever, vague.. wouldnt be pinned down on when we would meet.. called me saying he was just about to head off to Wales.. so that would have given him minutes to speak to me. He will be getting blind drunk tonight. He did say he hoped I was having a nice weekend and pleasanteries. My Mum listened to the message and then she said.. "I'd tell him to p*ss off!" (ha)"Thats either extreme embarresment or he's not interested, its very dismissive..devoid of emotion". So I dont know why, but something has changed (again!). I called back 20 minutes later and he sounded 'gone', distant, said I dont know if you've got plans but we could meet tommorow or Monday.. but I dont know what I am doing really, depends how I am feeling in the morning " - well, I do have plans hey, Piscean plans, but I didnt tell him that.. so we spoke briefly, he was in the car and just said, he would call me tommorow and we would meet either later tommorow or sometime on Monday. When I said I think I am leaving monday, he said he would definetly call me tommorow.
I bet he went out on the town last night, with our old friends (his) and that makes me sad. The Cougar was probably out (remember her !??) - I was right about her.. she is now dating my ex's cousin, who is very similiar in build, temperament and age to my ex, but not as funny or good looking (but a lovely guy). BMF W also told me 2 weeks ago that "whenever we saw *ex* out with Cougar having a drink, there was no chemistry" - which means I was also right, he DID meet her for a drink a few times last year.
Funny how yuo get the pieces of the puzzle eventually, just can take years.
