hi guys home from work now, read your posts and thank you, ive made a decision, im metting my wife in an hour, im making a stand for myself, i wont be nasty and i will be calm, but i am going to tell her a few things, i made this decision today while at work, i cant carry on like this. not sure what to say yet but im thinking long and hard about it i will post back later let you guys know what was said thanks
