Can I just say? I'd really like to smack the sh*t out of your WAW!!! (You'd laugh if you really saw/knew me at the visual of that one! Poised on the outside - mostly, spitfire on the inside!)
She seems HELL BENT on, at regular intervals, just tweaking you with R talks, making sure your hopes are not up, almost gloating in her dream lifestyle.
You are AMAZINGLY patient, and are handling her beautifully.
She really needs to be put over someone's knee and spanked!
On that note, I can't find any mention of the OM in the situation, other than he's from upstate NY. Do you know for sure? Is it an EA? PA? Do you have evidence? I feel for you on that one... you can get back a lot of things after infidelity of either kind, but the innocence and bond that only you TWO shared is gone forever. Are you dealing with your heart on your own? With an IC?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
