in these situations where women leave their husbands in search of the new exciting single life, men don't usually stand up for themselves and tell their wives that this isn't right - their wives become cruel & mean to them, demand things, get what they want because their husbands figure that if they do everything for their wives during this period of time that their wives will magically fall in love with them again (obviously you've seen that the opposite is true, it actually repels & repulses them). Your wives can't treat you this why unless you allow them to, just remember that.